Wednesday, August 13, 2008

The Most Beautiful Woman in the World - Aug 13

A wife of noble character who can find?
She is worth far more than rubies.

(Proverbs 31:10-12)

This post is not about Shania Twain. Mind you, it does give me a good excuse to post one of her pictures. A woman with long flowing hair while wearing a long dress is the picture of femininity.

I May Be Going Out On A Bit of a Limb Here

So what's a guy like me offering you ladies advice? Please delay your judgement and give me a chance. My true purpose of this post is to make YOU the most beautiful woman in the world. Unless you happen to be male in which case pay careful attention!

First the Bad News

May as well get this out of the way before we can proceed. The simple fact is that both the fashion and cosmetics industry are billion dollar businesses and that isn't going to change anytime soon. Now you still have to take care of yourself. So don't throw away all your toiletries just yet. Showering/Bathing on a regular basis is also strongly recommended. Physical beauty matters to men but that alone is not enough. So presentation is still important but it's not absolutely critical to feminine beauty! There's gotta be some substance there too!

Before we get to our main point, let's look at .......


One: Personality Matters

Now is it just me, or do most feminists scare off men? You know the ones I'm talking about. Women with a huge chip on their shoulder whilst carrying an ideological axe to grind (against men) and a permanent rain cloud over their heads. Strangely enough, that intimidates us. You don't necessarily have to perky or happy all the time. Just don't be continually gloomy or melancholy. Put away those chips, axes and rain clouds and us men will endear you. We like women who exude positive energy and are a pleasure to be around. That 'Me Against the World' attitude is one that all men will find distinctly unattractive.

Two: Conformity Leads to Emasculation

This is a big one that many women stumble upon. Ladies, a simple basic doctrine needs to be taught here. Men are men and will remain so indefinitely. While we appreciate your efforts to expand our horizons and have us get in touch with our emotions, please don't treat us like we're one of your girlfriends. We're not. Attempting to conform your special guy into some fantasy role that strictly pleases you will cause nothing but pain and anguish. Love should set you free, not imprison you. You wouldn't like it if we told you how to dress, talk and act. Be kind and extend the same courtesy to us.

Three: Don't Be Like Us. There's Plenty Enough Testosterone Out There Without You Adding to it.

Here's a shocker: Men like the fact that women are fundamentally different from us. Please don't be like us in order to please us. Let the man be the man and the woman be the woman. It's really not that hard a concept. Guard against excesses and things will flow a lot more naturally. It's balance, not a rigid equality that makes a healthy relationship grow.

What Makes a Woman Irresistable to Men?
A Study in Contrasts: Camilla vs. Diana

At first glance, it seems strange that when Charles and Di were having their marital problems that Charles would seek solace in Camilla's arms. Clearly Diana was the far more attractive of the two. Why then Camilla? I'll tell you why: Camilla appreciated Charles' masculine traits far better than Diana ever did. And that's the key. The woman whom men will chase after is one that appreciates and admires masculinity for what it is, rather than what she would want it to be. The irresistable woman genuinely enjoys men for who they are and withholds harsh judgement. The man that doesn't stray is one whose woman takes an interest while still giving him his space. Smother him and he'll leave. Ignore him and he'll stray. The irresistable woman makes her man feel important. My final advice? Be our greatest fans and we'll be more than happy to reciprocate.

All hail Shania, the Canadian Country Queen!

Johnny Cash

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